Often in cases of abuse, the child has no way of knowing it was wrong, so it's important to make sure your children know what is allowed and what is never allowed. Kids can learn to protect themselves with a little help from mom and dad. Children can be taught some basic lessons that you can elaborate on as they get older.

Teach your children how to avoid abuse at daycare and other situations

• You have the right to say NO to anyone who asks you do something painful, embarrassing, or wrong.
• No one should touch you on the parts of the body covered by a bathing suit, nor should you touch anyone else in these private places.
• Don't be tricked if someone says to keep something a secret by threatening you or bribing you.
• Don't be alone with an adult in an isolated place, such as a bathroom or bedroom, if it makes you feel uncomfortable.